correspondence with the Fellowship of Reconciliation on the issue of abortion
Open letter to members of the Fellowship of Reconciliation National Council
Dear National Council Member,
The Fellowship of Reconciliation is not known for avoiding controversial issues. Since its founding it has supported those who refused to take part in war, even during periods when pacifism was regarded by many as treasonable. When racism was far more acceptable than it is today, FOR members launched campaign after campaign on behalf of interracial justice, playing an important and constructive role in changing the way Americans respond to each other. We have opposed executions no matter what the crime, how grim the circumstances and how seemingly unrepentant the murderer was. In nearly every area of life, the Fellowship's role has never been simply to say no to violence but to seek life-affirming alternatives. Ever since our founding in 1914, we have promoted a vision of a nonviolent culture affecting nearly every area of life.
Yet there has been one notable area of avoidance. If a person knew nothing more about America than could be learned from statements and publications issued by the FOR or its program initiatives, he or she would have only the faintest awareness that the issue of abortion has divided the country for the past quarter century. So far, the FOR response has been to look the other way. The tragic irony is that one of the most pro-life organizations in US history says and does nothing to defend human life while in the womb or to support women under pressure to kill their unborn children.
The reason for this silence and passivity is that abortion is an issue dividing rather than uniting the FOR membership.
But is not passivity and silence in fact consent to abortion? If we had responded to any war or any area of social injustice with silence and without resistance, would anyone imagine we opposed what was happening or had a vision of a nonviolent alternative?
As a member of the FOR National Council, you belong of a community of people helping to give direction to the Fellowship of Reconciliation. We appeal to you to consider ways that the FOR can sensitize its members and friends to understand that, for some members of the FOR, the sanctity of human life, realized at every stage of life, is a constitutive dimension of pacifism. We believe the FOR could play a significant role in looking for ways to support women under pressure to have abortion and in the process help reduce the frequency of abortion. The FOR should promote dialogue, in small groups and via the pages of Fellowship magazine, to try to reach common ground on this critical issue.
Each of us began life in our mother's womb and no doubt some of our mothers had a lonely struggle on our behalf in bringing us into this world. Let us see what we can do to make it a little easier for pregnant women to find the support and encouragement they need in a society which has de-valued women and de-humanized the unborn.
Yours in fellowship,
William Anderson, Faye Kunce, Shelley and Jim Douglass, Daniel Berrigan, Carol and Dick Crossed, Marie Dennis, Dan Ebener, Marie Dennis, Jim and Nancy Forest, David Grant, Anne McCarthy, Don Mosley, Will O'Brien, Anne Symens-Bucher, Richard Taylor, Jim Wallis [a few other names were later added]
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on the stationery of the
Fellowship of Reconciliation
Box 271, Nyack, New York 10960
(914) 358/4601 / Fax: (914) 358/4924
Jim and Nancy Forest
March 5, 1999
Dear Jim, Nancy and Dan:
Last spring we received a letter from you, signed by eighteen persons, asking for FOR to deal with the issue of abortion in a way that seeks life-affirming alternatives and promotes the vision of a nonviolent culture. We are grateful for your concerns.
Your letter has been taken seriously by the National Council. We have entered into discussion at our subsequent Council meetings about this issue. Both in plenary sessions and in committee meetings we have sought to deal with this issue in a sensitive and compassionate way that recognizes the wide spectrum of belief about abortion, the areas of difference, as well as the areas of common concern. We have discovered and reaffirmed that persons in the FOR with varying views on abortion also share many of the same concerns and all are seeking to form opinions consistent with our shared reverence for life.
Attached is a working internal document that developed out of committee efforts over the past few months. It was discussed at the Council meeting February 26-March 1 and has been amended to reflect suggestions coming from further Council discussions. We send it to you and to others that have inquired about this issue to indicate where we are at this time. As we will be bringing it before the Council at our spring meeting in May, after further reflection, we request you not to circulate this but we are sending it to you to indicate the seriousness with which we have taken your original letter.
Yours in fellowship,
Lou Ann Ha'aheo Guanson
Vice Chairperson FOR National Council
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attached to the letter of Lou Ann Ha'aheo Guanson:
Working Internal Document! Not for Circulation or Publication (3-3-99)
FOR National Council
On Recognizing and Respecting Diversity Regarding Abortion
The FOR is an interfaith, international fellowship of women and men who are committed to nonviolence and reconciliation. Coming from a wide variety of religious, national, and ethnic backgrounds, we share a common identity in our reverence for life and the search for nonviolent ways of attaining justice. We oppose killing, whether in war or capital punishment or personal violence.
There is, nonetheless, a wide variety of opinion among committed FOR members on the issue of abortion. Some believe that abortion, from the moment of conception on, is always wrong. They believe that embryonic life is the beginning of human life and therefore should be accorded full human rights. Their belief in nonviolence leads them to protect women and the unborn.
Others, equally committed to nonviolence, do not equate embryonic life with the life of the mother. They believe that, especially in the early months, fetal life should be put in a context that considers such things as the health of the mother, fetal deformity and pregnancy arising out of rape or incest. They believe the pregnant woman should make the difficult decision herself. To forbid her this decision would be to deny respect for the individual and the belief that all persons should be free to follow their own consciences and the leading of the spirit.
There are many gradations between the above beliefs in the FOR, as there are in the wider society. Many who support either a pro life or a pro choice position do not see a constitutional or legislative solution as the best effort. Amidst our differences there are areas of agreement that we share:
* we are deeply concerned about women and children and lament the tragic dimensions of abortion.
* we believe that men need to be called forth to responsibility on this issue.
* we believe that women who are pregnant deserve health care, adequate nutrition, shelter and freedom from violence.
* we affirm efforts to reduce violence against women and efforts to enhance family planning so that the frequency of abortions will be decreased.
* we see the feminization of poverty as an injustice that must be addressed
* we would all seek to protect women from being coerced into a decision for or against abortion and we believe that women should have adequate support during pregnancy from family and community
* we deplore killing of doctors and the threat of violence against abortion providers and their families and groups providing reproductive services.
We believe that there needs to be space for respectful dialogue and compassionate listening on this issue. Such an endeavor will help recognize the differences among us and enable us to respect one another and reduce the violence and hostility on this issue. This will help further Martin Luther King's vision of the Beloved Community and the call to nonviolence and reconciliation that we have received from our elders Mohandas Gandhi, Muriel Lester, A.J. Muste, Andre and Magda Trocme.
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March 10, 1999
Dear Lou Ann Ha'aheo,
Thank you for sharing with me the draft text on abortion that will be presented to the FOR Council in May.
Unfortunately I find in it no recognition that abortion inevitably involves killing human life and that it thus raises an essential issue for an organization dedicated to protecting human life and promoting nonviolence. I find in it no commitment by the FOR to take any action that would result in there being fewer abortions. It basically says: "Some see it this way, some see it that way, and we in the Fellowship of Reconciliation find both points of view equally acceptable."
The summation of the views of opponents of abortion is oversimplified. I doubt any FOR member would say there is never a reason for abortion. As far as I know, all anti-abortion campaigners agree that abortion is permissible when the life of the mother is threatened. Thus they would not say that "abortion is always wrong." I also think that few if any would use the phrase "embryonic life" but rather "life in the womb," "the unborn child," or something similar.
In the next paragraph there is this sentence: "To forbid her this decision would be to deny respect for the individual and the belief that all persons should be free to follow their own consciences and the leading of the spirit."
Can you not easily think of situations in which this principle would not apply? If someone says he is following his conscience in shooting those who carry out abortions and is doing so at the leading of the spirit, would we not object? I'm sure many racist and anti-Semitic actions have been carried out by people who claimed they were obeying conscience.
The text states: "We believe that men need to be called forth to responsibility on this issue." I would say yes, of course, but why are not both men and women in this sentence?
Could you explain to me the term "the feminization of poverty"? It's new to me. Mind you, I live in Holland.
The text states: "We deplore killing of doctors and the threat of violence against abortion providers and their families and groups providing reproductive services." I'm sure every FOR member, no matter what his opinions on abortion may be, opposes killing doctors, but the last two words are an inappropriate euphemism. In fact we're talking about abortion services, the opposite of reproductive services.
One last question: When are you sending this draft text to the other 16 signers of the letter which led to the creation of the groups that drafted this text?
Once again, thank you for your efforts on this very tough issue. I hope we meet one day.
cc: Dan Ebener, John Dear
[there was no reply]
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Date: Wed, 24 Mar 1999 15:39:52 -0800
From: Dan Ebener
To: "Lou Ann Ha'aheo Guanson"
CC: Jim Forest , John Dear , Richard Deats , Bill Ditewig
Subject: Abortion statement
Lou Ann -
Thank you very much for your thoughtful response to our group's pro-life letter concerning the FOR's lack of position on abortion. I understand the situation that this issue puts you in is a tenuous one. Clearly, the FOR diversity on this issue seems reflective of the culture we live in. While we may not easily come to an agreement on abortion, it is good and just for us to dialogue about it. I have been actively involved in the most intense efforts at pro-life / pro-choice dialogue in the country, for the past three years. Out of this experience, I offer these reflections / observations:
1. I hope that we could express more clearly a critical understanding of how the search for love and truth can lead toward pro-life pacifism. (Clearly, the draft which we have received is a committee document, and for that, I can only wish you my condolences. My experiences with committee writings is that you get a lot breadth and little depth. This draft certainly reads like a committee document.)
2. The three sentences intended to express the pro-life position are very weak. It is a rather superficial expression of the pro-life position. I would be glad to re-write them completely. Better yet, they could be written out of a dialogue experience. I would be ashamed to show them to my pro-life friends in Iowa; in fact, my pro-choice friends (who are members of the FOR) here would be embarrassed for the FOR. (One of our experiences with the dialogue process is that you must be able to express the other person's viewpoint to their satisfaction. Some of the pro-choice people here have become so articulate in expressing the pro-life position that we kid them that we want them to speak at our press conferences. Maybe they could write the pro-life section for us.)
3. I know of no pro-life person who uses phrases like "embryonic life" or "fetal life". This is clearly pro-choice language. In our local Common Ground group, we have recognized that use of the word "fetus" is a pro-choice term, "unborn child" is the preferred description for pro-life people.
4. The 3 sentences describing the pro-life positions are qualified by phrases like "some believe" or "they believe". The same is true for the pro-choice paragraph until the last sentence, which makes a very bold pro-choice statement without any qualification.
5. It is an over-simplification to assume that pro-life people oppose abortions in cases of rape and incest. In fact, almost every law and regulation governing abortion excludes these cases. That's not where the real debate is, except among philosophers and theologians. Politically, it is often used as a "wedge" to polarize the issue, not to bring people together. It is the proliferation of "elective" abortions which is the common concern of most good-intentioned people. There is no mention of this in the draft.
6. Even Bill and Hilary Clinton agree that abortions should be rare. But there is no mention of whether the FOR believes that abortions should be rare. Was this considered?
7. To single out men as the only ones who need to be "called forth to responsibility on this issue" sounds like a loaded and un-explained statement. What does it mean? Should not the mother and father of the baby function as a team in responding to the crisis pregnancy? The role of men is often to push for and pay for the abortion, even when the mother does not want to abort. Perhaps what you could say is that abortion provides an easy way for men to act sexually irresponsible and destroy the consequences.
8. While most pro-life people do not promote the Human Life Amendment any longer as a realistic solution to abortion (it is too quick and too drastic), we do promote a range of legislative regulations which might place reasonable restrictions on abortion. The way I see it, the reason for the violence and inflammatory language is the same as in war: We have set up a paradigm where there has to be winners and losers. Right now, the pro-life side is losing. 26 years after Roe, the pro-life movement is stronger than it has ever been. It is not going to go away. It gets stronger every year. (If a Human Life Amendment was passed tomorrow, we would witness a huge growth in the pro-choice movement, along with more violence from the pro-choice side, just as we witnessed in the years just prior to Roe.) For the FOR to deny the possibility of further legislative solutions to the issue is to condemn the pro-life side to a losing future. The only way the pro-life side will rest its passion for this issue is for some progress to be made toward a more pro-life policy. To deny that possibility, as this draft does, is to condemn all of us to more violence.
9. To be consistent, if we are going to condemn violence against abortion providers, as we should, we should also condemn the violence occurring against Crisis Pregnancy Centers, which I would be glad to document for you. (As I'm sure you know, just because it doesn't get reported in the secular media doesn't mean it does not exist.) Again, we need to be balanced and fair in our statements. I realize most FOR people are probably unaware of the violence against pro-life leaders and CPC's, but we all understand that this is becoming a civil war, and once a conflict reaches those proportions, we know that the violence goes both ways. The role of the FOR, of course, is to bridge the gaps and bring greater understanding to both sides of the humanity of the other.
10. Could we consider some action steps in the statement? Perhaps express more directly a call for dialogue and understanding?
The Iowa Common Ground group, which has been featured on ABC News, the Wall Street Journal, Harper's magazine, and many other media, would be willing to facilitate a process of dialogue on this issue for the FOR. I understand that it may seem like an overwhelming issue. It is. But I believe that it is the basis for an undeclared civil war in this country, and if the FOR is opposed to war and committed to the search for truth and the resolution of conflict, we need to be willing to step into the middle of this.
I would be glad to be helpful in whatever role you want me to play.
As requested, I have not circulated the letter to anyone. I believe that the signers of our original letter deserve a response directly from Nyack, so I have not contacted them either. They are all members of FOR and the national office would have their current addresses.
Again, thanks for your response.
Dan R. Ebener
ph. 319-324-1911 fax: 319-324-5811
[There was no reply.]
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From: Nancy Forest-Flier, [email protected]
To: Lou Ann Ha'aheo Guanson, [email protected]
Jim Forest, [email protected]
Dan Ebener, [email protected]
Richard Deats, [email protected]
Date: 05-04-1999 5:23 PM
RE: response to FOR statement on abortion
Dear Lou Ann,
As I am one of the three people personally addressed by FOR's "On Recognizing and Respecting Diversity Regarding Abortion," I would like to register my reaction to it. First, I want to thank you for your work in putting this document together and in getting such a dialogue started. It cannot be easy working with a committee to arrive at a single statement on such a divisive issue. But I think it is essential that this work be done and that it continue.
I have read both Jim's and Dan Ebener's responses to the statement, and I basically agree with both of them. The section that professes to express the pro-life position is quite weak and almost stereotyped. The first statement about the pro-life position ("Some believe that abortion, from the moment of conception on, is always wrong") is grossly un-nuanced; in fact I would think that all pro-life people who are FOR members are willing to accept abortion when the life of the mother is at stake. There are loaded words used that pro-life people would never use ("embryonic life," for instance, in the next sentence).
Finally, as Dan points out, the last sentence of the pro-choice paragraph is made without qualification ("To forbid her this decision would be to deny respect for the individual and the belief that all persons should be free to follow their own consciences and the leading of the spirit"). The problem I have with this sentence is that actually it applies to both pro-life and pro-choice people, yet you confine it to the ranks of the pro-choice. Pro-life people also believe that women should be free to make a choice; that women who believe in the sanctity of life since the moment of conception should be free to bear their child in a child-supportive, family-supportive, woman-supportive environment. But this is often not the case. It is not uncommon for women to be forced to have abortions by their partners or their parents, even when they sense that it is wrong. They may be young, they may never have thought very much about whether they are pro-life or pro-choice, yet suddenly they are supposed to make this staggering decision. The basically pro-choice society around them does little or nothing to support them. If they decide to go ahead with the pregnancy, they may be rejected by their partner or parents, or worse. They may know nothing about Pregnancy Crisis Centers. For these women, and there are many of them, such a phrase would be nothing but cynical posturing. Like the cynicism inherent in William Styron's book "Sophie's Choice," the word "choice" has a hollow ring to it when it means deciding which of your children you are going to have killed.
You may be familiar with groups such as Pro-Life Feminists. These people see abortion more as a convenient way of society avoiding responsibility for women, children and families and for allowing men to behave in a way that is sexually irresponsible. The question for them is not only whether human life begins at conception, but whether the social problems that abortion represents should be offered only one solution: that woman endure a deeply invasive medical procedure that may have an enormous psychological impact on them for the rest of their lives.
I do not live in America, and the "civil war" that Dan talks about it distant from me. In Holland, where we live, the abortion rate is the lowest in the industrial world. This, the Minister of Health recently said, is something we are proud of. If lowering the abortion rate is enough to make a Minister of Health proud, then it must be worth pursuing. Holland is a country that has excellent sex education for young people, considerable social support for families, good medical coverage for everyone, and a major pro-life organization that prefers to help women in a non-accusatory, non-strident way. Perhaps the abortion rate of a country is a strong indication of that country's social health. Look at Russia, where the abortion rate is soaring.
Finally, I wonder whether the title of the statement, "On Recognizing and Respecting Diversity Regarding Abortion," doesn't fail to recognize that there is a real problem here. It's very nice to recognize and respect diversity, but the FOR also probably recognizes and respects diversity on many other issues -- vegetarianism, for instance, or spanking your children, or use of alcohol or soft drugs. Should the FOR pat itself on the back for recognizing and respecting diversity on an issue that, unlike these others, is tearing the country apart?
I'd like to know whether the statement has been sent to the other signers of our letter. They should be made aware of how this discussion is progressing.
Finally, I hope that you take Dan Ebener up on his offer to be of assistance in this discussion.
Again, thank you for all you are doing.
[There was no reply.]
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On May 24, 1999, the following statement was approved by the Fellowship of Reconciliation National Council:
The FOR and Abortion
The FOR is an interfaith, international fellowship of women and men who are committed to nonviolence and reconciliation. Coming from a number of religious, national and ethnic backgrounds, we share a common identity in our reverence for life and the search for nonviolent ways of attaining justice.
There is a wide variety of opinion among committed FOR members on the issue of abortion and the beginning of human life. We have observed integrity and sincerity in members who are led to very divergent convictions on this issue, and we affirm and respect their place within the FOR.
Amidst our differences there are areas of agreement that we share:
* we are deeply concerned about women and children.
* we believe that women who are pregnant deserve health care, adequate nutrition, shelter and freedom from violence.
* we affirm efforts to reduce violence against women in a society where oppression of women, male domination and the open promotion of the subordination of women continue.
* we support efforts to enhance family planning so that the frequency of abortions will be decreased.
* we see the feminization of poverty as an injustice that must be addressed.
* we believe that women should have adequate support from family and community during and after pregnancy, and that men should be called to responsibility on this issue.
* we deplore murder and bombings directed at women's health care clinics and their health care providers.
We believe that there needs to be space for mutually respectful dialogue and compassionate listening on this issue. Such an endeavor will help recognize the differences among us and enable us to respect one another and reduce the violence and hostility on this issue. This will help further Martin Luther King's vision of the Beloved Community and the call to nonviolence and reconciliation.
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to John Dear, executive secretary of the Fellowship of Reconciliation
June 19, 1999
In January, I wrote to you that I was considering resigning from the FOR because of its unwillingness or inability to recognize abortion as another form of murder similar in character to other acts of killing the FOR has opposed, or to make any initiative that would make abortion less common. You responded by asking me to hang in a bit longer in order to allow time for a dialogue on abortion at the February National Council meeting. You also asked how I could resign when the FOR has "a seamless garment advocate at the helm."
Last night, after receiving the FOR National Council statement on abortion, it was clear to me that it was impossible any longer to remain an FOR member in the hope that the kind of change might occur which would renew my sense of connection. Thus my letter of resignation last night.
You mentioned in your letter that there would be a process of dialogue. I have to say I have had no experience of such a dialogue. I helped to write and was one of the signers of a letter to National Council members on the subject of abortion in which possible areas of FOR response were proposed -- I attach a copy. So far as I am aware, only three of the letter signers (Nancy, Dan Ebener and myself) ever had a personal response to our letter. This came from Lou Ann Ha'aheo Guanson, vice chairperson FOR National Council. She sent us a draft text of a proposed declaration on abortion. She asked us not to send this to other signers of the letter. All three of us wrote back to her, among other things asking why those other FOR members who shared our concern were not allowed to see the draft. There was no response to this question or any reply to any of the more substantial comments any of us had made.
Did members of the National Council see our responses to that draft? What we said seems, so far as I can tell, to have had no influence at all in the text approved by the NC.
Is this dialogue?
It's now 38 year since I joined the Fellowship of Reconciliation. I was 20 years old and living on the Lower East Side in Manhattan. I had lately left the US Navy as a conscientious objector and had become part of the Catholic Worker community (a movement that had come into existence in part because of Dorothy Day's need to repent of an abortion she had had when she was a younger woman, though it wasn't until I wrote a biography of Dorothy in the mid-80s that I became aware both of her abortion and its later impact on her life).
What drew me to join the FOR in the first place? Partly it was simply friendship with a staff member, John Heidbrink, who had the title Church Work Secretary. In those years membership in the FOR was probably 90-95 percent Protestant Christian. John was actively reaching out to Catholics, people like Merton, Dan Berrigan and Dorothy Day. Somehow he also wrote to me. I was excited to find a Protestant minister with such a warm heart for Catholics, something that wasn't at all common in those pre-ecumenical years. I also came to appreciate John. He showered me with books and in many ways widened my world. We became good friends, a friendship that has lasted all these years. In 1964, he made it possible for me to take part in a small FOR group traveling to Paris, Rome, Basel, Prague and Moscow, a life-changing journey for me. He played a major role in the creation of the Catholic Peace Fellowship, which during the Vietnam War brought many hundreds of Catholics into FOR membership. It was partly thanks to the CPF that the Catholic Church produced so many thousands of conscientious objectors during the Vietnam War.
But it wasn't only friendship with John, and later with other staff members, that made me so deeply respect the FOR. Here was an organization that recognized the sanctity of life in a remarkable and consistent way, working tirelessly to overcome all those forces which make people enemies to each other. Agreeing fully with General Sherman's observation that "war is hell," the FOR encouraged people not to go to hell. It also opposed capital punishment, even in that less violent time by no means a popular position in the US. It struggled to overcome racial prejudice and injustice. It was not uncommon for Fellowship members to risk imprisonment and even violence against themselves in their effort not so much to force change but to change people. Its nonviolence was not merely something negative but what Gandhi called satyagraha: the power of truthful living.
My involvement with the FOR led me to three periods of FOR employment, first as Interfaith Associate, later as Vietnam Program Secretary, then in the mid-70s (not long after getting out of prison) as editor of Fellowship magazine, a job I left at the beginning of 1977 when I was appointed to head the IFOR in Holland. In the 11 years since leaving the IFOR staff in 1988, I've spent a great deal of time helping build the Orthodox Peace Fellowship. (It was experiences in Russia while working for IFOR that led me from an academic interest in the Orthodox Church to become an Orthodox Christian.) I've spent most of my adult life working for the FOR or its associated groups. Such a long commitment makes it not so easy to resign.
When I joined the FOR in 1961, I hardly knew there was such a thing as abortion. It wasn't an issue I can recall people either in the Church or in any peace group discussing. It wasn't until later in the decade, with the emergence of the women's movement, that the issue came up. Part of an emerging consensus among feminists at that time was that a woman should not be forced to bear a child. Put that way, I couldn't help but agree. There was at the same time growing concern about the "population explosion" -- the planet and all creation was under threat because of too many human beings. The case seemed to me, as it did to many others, convincing -- and it gave another reason to support abortion, not only as a woman's right but as a way not to overfill the human lifeboat. The Catholic Church was at that time the only loud voice in society taking an opposing view and even I, a Catholic, wasn't convinced by what the Church had to say on the subject. I was among those smiling at such one-liners as: "If priests were the ones to get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament."
On the other hand, I would be caricaturing myself if I said that I was an eager supporter of abortion. It seemed to me, at best, a tragic choice. I had to agree with the traditional Christian view that human life begins at the beginning -- that we are no less human in the womb than out of it -- and that the killing of an unborn human being was never something to cheer about. Nor could I accept the rhetoric that very often was applied to the unborn -- "a clump of cells" -- or the tendency among the more articulate to use technical words (embryo, etc.) to depersonalize and dehumanize the unborn.
It was only when the FOR was seriously considering expulsion of the Catholic Peace Fellowship from its list of associated groups -- this because of a statement it had issued opposing abortion -- that I was finally forced, reluctantly, to realize that I was letting peer group pressure get the better of me, overwhelming both truth and conscience. I began to realize that the minimum one could do was to actively look for ways to help those who were under pressure to have an abortion -- and quickly discovered how much even the smallest gesture of support could mean to a pregnant woman.
During that period, the war in Vietnam came to its sudden end. Preparing the June 1975 issue of Fellowship, I wrote to a number of FOR members who had played a major role in the movement against the war, asking them to write briefly "on lessons learned ... and the ways in which we can better become a peacemaking community within the world's most violence-prone society." Among those to respond was Dan Berrigan, your brother Jesuit priest, who had spent part of the war in prison. At the time he was teaching in Detroit and could see, he related, a billboard out the classroom window that read, "Abortions," and provided a phone number. Dan said that whenever he looked at this sign, he recalled a question Bonhoeffer had asked: "How are the unborn to live?" The billboard made abortion seem as normal an activity as delivering groceries or selling used cars. At the time, Dan wrote, "nearly two-million nearly-born people in our midst have been so disposed of." He went on to ask a series of questions, one of which was what can we do to "help everyone walk into the full spectrum and rainbow of life, from womb to old age, so that no one is expendable?"
Would that the National Council statement on abortion had opened with such a question and attempted to answer it!
For the last few years I have in various ways tried to raise this issue once again within the FOR, chiefly through correspondence with members of staff, finally joining with other FOR members in writing to members of the National Council, asking them "to consider ways that the FOR can sensitize its members and friends to understand that, for some members of the FOR, the sanctity of human life, realized at every stage of life, is a constitutive dimension of pacifism." We expressed our belief that "the FOR could play a significant role in looking for ways to support women under pressure to have abortion and in the process help reduce the frequency of abortion." We made a few modest suggestions for what the FOR could do, such as "promote dialogue, in small groups and via the pages of Fellowship magazine, to try to reach common ground on this critical issue." In the spectrum of pro-life writings, our observations and suggestions could hardly have been more mild. But none of them have made their way into the NC statement.
I have been asked, "Isn't it enough that we agree about certain things -- let us hold together with our areas of agreement and not concentrate in our disagreements." In general I am prepared to say yes. But for a fellowship of reconciliation (the lower case letters are intentional) not to be shocked at abortion and to fail to respond to it in a constructive way, undercuts the most basic point of all: that at no stage in life are human beings appropriate targets of violence, least of all in the womb.
This also raises the question as to whether the Orthodox Peace Fellowship should remain an associated group within the Fellowship of Reconciliation. I believe it should not and will be propose to our officers and board of advisors that we end this alliance.
This is already too long a letter. Let me end it simply by slightly revising Bonhoeffer's question: "What can we do to help the unborn --and their mothers -- to live?"
in Christ's peace,
PS Though this is a letter first of all to you, John, I hope you don't mind that I will be sharing it with other FOR members, hoping that it will help them better understand my reasons for resigning.
attachments: 1) group letter to the FOR National Council 2) draft text on abortion from NC working group 3) responses to that draft from myself, Nancy Forest-Flier and Dan Ebener 4) the text issued by the NC on May 24
[No reply was received.]
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to Richard Deats
editor of Fellowship magazine and senior FOR executive staff member
20 June 1999
Thank you for sending the FOR statement "The FOR and Abortion". You already have Jim's response. I have been struggling with the contents of the statement and my own response to it for a few days now. I have been surprised with the depth of emotion that this exercise has revealed. I joined the FOR in 1974 -- 25 years ago -- and I recently turned 50, which means I have spent half my life as an FOR member. Jim and I met at the FOR in Nyack. Our first years here in Alkmaar were deeply entrenched in the FOR community both here and abroad. So trying to deal with the impact that this statement has had on me has meant some long, hard thinking about how much the FOR has been part of my life.
I understand that the statement on abortion is an attempt to search for areas of agreement. This is certainly admirable. At least now we know what the foundation is. But as I read down the list of articles, I realize that there is nothing in any of them indicating a courageous support of the "reverence for life", which the first paragraph claims to be a basic part of membership in the FOR. Who indeed could not fail to agree with any of these points? You don't have to be an FOR member, or even a pacifist, to agree with them. Having "concern" for women and children is something we expect of any normal person. The same is true for the rest of the statement. Is there any special way that the FOR, because of its "reverence for life" and aspiration for Martin Luther King's "beloved community", has something new and courageous to say to the world about this most important subject?
If the FOR's aspirations were any less (say, like those of an environmental organization like Greenpeace), I would say, certainly the membership is divided on the issue of abortion. And I could live with that. But FOR's aspirations are profound and very broad. They are nothing short of the search for truth, the establishment of a "beloved community" based on nonviolence, respect and justice.
Again, if abortion were any less of any issue (say, like vegetarianism), I would say every person is free to follow his or her own conscience. But whether you believe the unborn child is actually a child or simply a clump of cells, abortion is violent. It is profoundly violent. And no matter how I turn it, I cannot reconcile FOR's high aspirations with this violence. I cannot. I cannot relativize the issue and say, it all depends on how you look at it. We are talking about violence and death here. Something (whatever it was) was once alive, and now it is dead, and it is dead because it was intentionally destroyed.
When I work all this into my own spiritual development, I realize that I cannot be part of a group that relativizes this issue. I cannot say on the one hand that abortion is a grievous sin, and on the other hand say "but it's only a sin for me, because I'm an Orthodox Christian, it may not be a sin for you." I must throw the weight of my entire life, my entire soul, my mind and my strength behind this truth and say it is a sin for everyone, no matter who they are. Otherwise my pursuit of truth is a joke, my prayers are empty, my confessions are hollow.
This is hard for me to get around. It has hit me right between the eyes these past two days. I fear that you will receive this news from me and from Jim and will say, they didn't get what they wanted so they're picking up their marbles and going home. But I implore you to realize that this is not the case. The fact is that I cannot be a member of an organization that claims to revere life on the one hand and then says that abortion has nothing to do with universal truth.
Richard, I am so, so saddened by this. I have felt myself growing further and further from the FOR in the last ten years. Even so, to make a definitive break, which almost seemed inevitable, is very hard. Yet I cannot continue with my membership.
love and peace,
[There was no reply.]
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Fellowship of Reconciliation
December 4, 1999
This is not a letter I have been looking forward to writing but no doubt you have been expecting it.
The Orthodox Peace Fellowship will be ending its formal association with the Fellowship of Reconciliation as soon we have a US account operating, which seems almost certain to occur by the end of the month.
This follows a decision made within OPF not to affiliate ourselves with organizations which do not promote a consistent pro-life ethic. This would include attention to the unborn and their mothers, who often resort to abortion not so much from choice but under intense social or, in some countries, even legal pressure. The recent FOR National Council statement made it clear that the FOR and OPF take a very different view on this matter, which for us is central to our reason for being: protection of human life at every stage of development, from the womb to the death bed.
We will welcome opportunities to cooperate with the FOR on specific projects of common interest, insofar as we are able. The informal link is unbroken. We greatly admire many areas of FOR achievement and activity.
in Christ's peace,
Orthodox Peace Fellowship
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